There's Good in Goodbye

​Well, I think life has wonderful ways to teach us a new lesson. Either by having nothing happen at all or by having everything happen all at once. Either from faithfulness or betrayal.  

​Dear ladies, I know exactly how it feels to be betrayed by the person you thought would never did that. You think he was your oasis on the desert, you think he was real. But the truth is, he was just a mirage, he wasn’t real.  

*deep inhale*deep exhale*

​Sometimes painful things can teach us lessons that we didn’t think we needed to know. For example, those who don’t know the value of loyalty can never appreciate the cost of betrayal. Yes, the worst kind of hurt is betrayal. Because it means someone was willing to hurt you just to make themselves feel better and the saddest part is, it never comes from your enemies. But girls, your job isn’t to be desperate. Your job isn’t to figure out if someone deserves something. Your job is to lift the fallen, to restore the broken, and to heal the hurting. Forgive them. No, it doesn’t mean you give them the second chance to hurt you again. Forgiveness prevents their behavior from destroying your heart. Be thankful anyway, because they still reminding you what butterflies feel like hohoho.  

​So, instead of blaming your self, here I have some tips to do self-healing wkwk 

👉🏼First, hangout with your pal and leave your phone. 

Or maybe if you too lazy to go out, just call your best to your home and doing most of the girls did hehehehe.

👉🏼Second, meet new people. 

👉🏼Third, reading motivation books. Okay, it’s not a big problem for me if you call me nerd or something like that wkwk. But, I recommend you this book, The Secret. It tells us that the one who can control everything in your life is our mind. So, as long as you learn self-control, you can master everything.

​Ladies, sometimes there is no darker place than our own thoughts. So, stay open minded. Things aren’t always what they seems to be. Staying with someone who doesn’t appreciate you isn’t loyalty. It’s stupidity. No, you don’t become heartless. You just become smarter than you used to be. Show them that you can live happily with or without them. Who knows if the world hopes for you?  What if is the world is inspire by you and you, here you just feel worthless?  The world has bigger problems than your little disappointment, my dear😊 The world can be better because of you.  

Note: to those who betrayed, the truth will get out eventually anyway. You have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to how they used to be. Maybe it’ll slap you really hard. But look, how happy they can be without you. And once you realized, you’ll miss them more. The one and only I can suggest is, don’t leave something good , to see if you can find better. Once you realized you had the best, the best will find better😊